Breakups are never easy no matter which side you are – the one to blame or the blaming one. What is more, every person is entitled to its own perception of the situation and sometimes it is difficult to advise anything.

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These times we live in are probably are the best ones and the worst ones at the same time. The thing is that modern world is filled both with incredible temptations and most severe pain. No matter which road you take it is always you responsible for the result.

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Various kinds of applications are the inevitable part of modern society. There are apps for everything even for dating. On the one hand there is nothing strange and entirely wrong about that, but on the other hand, it kills some romance of the relationship creation at its core.

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But today we are not going to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of these apps. What we are actually going to discuss is whether you should use them right after the breakup. Once again it is quite important whether you were the initiator or the victim.

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If you are the initiator, it is possible that you have been planning this for a while and who knows maybe you have already had a sneak peek at these apps. That is why you may make yourself feel better by starting using one. But it is up to you, after all, maybe you didn’t plan the breakup to happen.

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If you are the victim, then we would not advise you to start using a dating app straight away. First of all, you are very vulnerable at the time, and all you want is to fill in the whole –this never ends well. Wait for a little, at least for a week, give some time for the wounds to heal and for you to accept reality the way it is.

To tell you the truth the choice is always yours, and you should listen to your heart in the first place!

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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