Every time we fall in love we hope that he is The One. That one person that we’re going to spend our life with, that will return our love, take care of us and share our life goals. Very often, though, our hopes are shattered by false alarms.
We toss and turn asking ourselves all sorts of questions about what we did wrong when, in fact, there are only 10 questions that we should be asking. The answer to these questions could tell us early on if the man that we’re with has the potential to be our Prince Charming.
#1. Do you feel like this is destiny?
Serendipity is the stuff of romcoms. However, when you meet your One, the stars seem to align, clouds part, things just make sense. If you feel like you were meant to be, you probably were.
#2. Does he support you all the time?
Once in a while doesn’t count. If he is with you every step of the way, encouraging you to aim higher, be better, if he takes your side in an argument you’re having with your friends, that’s what Prince Charming does.
#3. Does he “get” you?
Does he understand you as you are, with all your quirks and weird sense of humor? Does he finish your sentences like he’s reading your mind? Do you harmonize in ways that you’ve never been able to with anyone before? Hold on to him.
#4. Do you feel jealous?
Contrary to what most people think, the fact that you’re totally secure and never feel jealous is a positive sign. He might just be the one for you.
#5. Do you trust him?
And we don’t mean it in the sense of taking your dog for a walk and bringing it back in one piece. Do you trust him with the big stuff, with your life? If you think that you can count on him through thick-and-thin, that’s what matters the most.
#6. Does he motivate you?
Does he spark the flame of ambition in you? If you feel like he inspires you to be great and achieve your goals, he has soulmate potential.
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#7. Does he know your secrets?
In other words, do you trust him enough to share with him your deepest, darkest secrets? It’s important that he does not mock, condemn or judge you for it.
#8. Does he make you a priority?
Many guys fail at this. But, the One, will always put you first. Yes, even before his mates and his favorite team sport.
#9. Do his values align with yours?
To make a relationship work, you need to be on the same page regarding your outlook on life. If you share the same moral principles and you value the same things, you’re on the right path.
#10. Do you share the same goals?
If your values are aligned, it’s time to think about what you want from life. Common goals are very important in a long-term relationship. What if one of you wants children and the other wants to focus exclusively on their career? If your goals don’t align too, there will be arguments.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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