Sometimes guys are more interested in short-lived connections than potential relationships. Whether they are single or taken, you want to stay aware of these guys so that you don’t get hurt. Players aren’t looking to shape a bond with you so if that’s what you’re after, then it’s best to stay clear.
Look out for these 4 red flags to help you identify players:
#1. Hurried Physical Interactions
The physical chemistry is an important part of any union, but it shouldn’t be the only aspect of a relationship. Usually when two people meet, they get to know each other before taking the next step to physical connection. If you see that the guy you’re talking to rushes into physical contact, evaluate the situation to figure out if he could be playing you.
Keep watch of how the guy you’re with handles his information around you. Does he always answer messages and calls quickly or in different rooms? If you feel like your guy is trying to hide things from you, trust your instincts.
A guy like this could be one who has various romantic partners that he’s juggling at the same time. Unless you’re okay with that, you’ll probably want to end the fling.
#3. Serial Flirter
No woman wants to be with a guy who has eyes for others. Noticing people around you is natural, but if your guy can’t stop his eyes from following the sight of other women, or he continues flirting with women, then you should reconsider spending your time with him. Players will do as they please and like to have the best of all worlds.
#4. Warnings from Others
Listen to the things that people tell you. If mutual acquaintances warn you about your guy’s player status, take them seriously. When you’re first getting to know someone, it’s easy to make excuses for odd or undesirable behavior. The people who care about you will speak up if they notice that something’s off. Take the time to think about why they’re pointing it out.
To keep it simple: stay alert. Make sure that you don’t get swept up into a romance with a guy who has no real interest in you other than passing his time enjoyably.
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