There’s no need to think that figuring out how to attract a guy is difficult. The solution is extremely simple, and it has to do with behaving in ways that speak to a man’s instincts.
Human beings are visual by nature. We notice and analyze things visually and from that information make most of our assumptions and conclusions. So reframe the reality in your mind. It’s not that guys are jerks who look at all women, but that their wired to notice visually appealing things.
Use it to your advantage! Practice body language and nonverbal communication so that you’re giving an impression that will make guys want to learn more about you.
Here are 5 things you can do to get the ball rolling:
#1. Smile More
Approaching women is not as easy as it may seem for men. They often feel very intimidated and when they see a woman they like without a smile, it increases their fear. When you smile you give the immediate feeling that you are open and interested in interaction with guys who are attracted to you. For even more success, wear a strong red lipstick, as it’s like a modern mating signal.
#2. Strategic Eye Contact
Playing with the timing of eye contact can be used as a very clear indicator of attraction and openness. Although you may feel awkward at first, stick with it. Once you’ve made initial contact with a potential guy by smiling and meeting eyes, dare to hold his gaze a bit longer each time. He will understand that you are targeting and approving him as a potential mate, and get ready to make his move.
#3. Hair Play
You can use your hair in subtle ways to help increase a level of a man’s attraction to you. When you’ve already hooked his attention with smiling and playful eye contact, move to the use of your hair. Be gentle and smooth with your movements. You want to sweep it across and around softly, making sure to expose your neck in the process. This will heighten a man’s visceral attraction to you.
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A slight change in posture will unconsciously alert the man you’re flirting with that you are inviting him to make a move. By simply lifting your shoulders and slightly arching your back, you send the mating signal that you’re sexually receptive. Even though the guy won’t realize this, he will feel the urge to come closer to you.
#5. Lure Him Closer
If you’re playing love games with a guy from the comfort of a group of friends, you will need to break away in order to give the guy the final cue to move in. The packy dynamic is intimidating to guys. Once you’ve been flirting, smiling, and sending your body language signals, breaking away from your clan and creating the opportunity for the guy to enter your personal space will be the sign he needs.
Human beings have come a long way, but there are still primal instincts within us. Using these to your benefit with your body language will help you attract the guys you like.
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