Sometimes your guy might seem distant or distracted and it feels like nothing you say or do can get his attention. There is a trick you can use, and that is to touch him in one of the areas that may not be obvious, but are favorites for men. Touch your guy in one of these 10 places to get his attention:
#1. Near His Ankle
There’s a small spot between his anklebone and heel that’s a dip and pressure point. Softly pressing and rubbing this point triggers high passion. Test it out in bed when he least expects it and enjoy watching his surprised and grateful reaction.
#2. His Ears
Spending time around your guy’s ears is sure to make him feel good. Whether you whisper sweet nothings to him or softly kiss his earlobes, he will be left with a feeling of pure pleasure. If you want to ramp it up, you can bite his earlobes.
#3. Front of the Neck
If you’ve ever planted even the softest kiss on your guy’s neck then you know how effective this spot can be. Spend some time kissing the front of his neck and you will likely find yourself on the path to an erotic experience.
Touching the face is something that sends the message of pure love. Not only will it help your guy relax when you softly rub and massage his jaw, eyes, and temples, but he will know that you really see him and feel that he is your person.
#5. His Lips
The lips are one of the most sensitive areas of the body. Kissing your guy’s lips is a given, but have you thought about rubbing your fingers across them lightly? It will create a different, softer sensation from kissing, that is also enjoyable for your guy.
It seems like guys spend a lot more time touching their girlfriends’ bums than the other way around! The truth is that guys like it just as much as you do. Don’t be scared to give it a try! Chances are your guy will like it, and if he doesn’t he’ll just let you know.
You know how your spine tingles when you’re watching something frightening? Well, it also tingles with pleasure. Try rubbing the bottom of your guy’s spine softly and slowly increasing the pressure you put as you make your way up the spine. This will add heat to the mood and you can even start kissing his spine to move things along.
Don’t stick your finger in his bellybutton right away! That will definitely change the mood from sensual to silly! Take your time making small circles around the area with your fingers. If the mood heats up, you can use your tongue and get creative.
#9. Soles of His Feet
While the soles of your feet may only be ticklish, for your guy it’s a different story because men have more nerve-endings there than women. Rub them gently and focus your attention on a small pressure point near the bottom of his foot. Pressing that point will put him in the mood to love you.
You can use your guy’s thumbs to let him know you’re in the mood for something fun. Start slowly by massaging them, and move on to sucking them to send a message of what could come. It’s an easy way to start the course of foreplay.
Use these 10 spots when you feel like you want your guy’s attention or want to create a specific type of loving mood!
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