Very often we hear about the value of loyalty, but when it comes to real life, it turns out that many people percept it differently.
That is why we decided to have a closer look at the notion of loyalty when it comes to a relationship. As it turns out that two people may claim to be a 100 % loyal to each other just because they haven't cheated on each other. If you are 9one of those people, it may be quite difficult to convince you otherwise but are going to try.
The thing is that it is great that you are not sharing yourself with anyone else except your wife or husband but when it comes to the reality there is much more to loyalty than just that.
To be loyal to your partner means to devote your life to love each other no matter what. And that means that all the dating applications, or phone numbers of your one night stands, are to be forgotten and deleted once and for good. Ask yourself – are you able to do that? If the answer is positive – then you are a step closer to being loyal to your partner.
Being loyal means that you are not ashamed of your status and you are not trying to hide from anyone. On the contrary, your wedding ring, your status on social networks prove that you are happy with your choice and that you do not wish to mislead anyone.
To be loyal means, to be honest with your partner even though the truth sometimes leaves much to be desired and it may hurt the one you love. But that also means that you are open and mature in your relationship and you share these things not to hurt but to confess and to ask forgiveness.
When you grasp all these simple, little things and come to the understanding that there is nothing to hide and there is no one that can substitute your second half – then only then you are ready to claim that you are indeed loyal and you can be proud of it!
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