As everybody knows, men fantasize about dating voluptuous women with an alluring personality. But there is more about you, including the way you act and even your silly habits, that makes a man fall for you. You will certainly be surprised by what those aspects are. Many of the things you do without even noticing or thinking about will make a man fall for you instantly.
We’re sharing here 10 of those irresistible traits.
#1. Playing Counter Strike or any other shooter game
A guy, especially if he is into shooter games himself, will be totally disarmed in front of your well-targeted charm. Guys really dig girls who can pick up that controller and keep up with them in the game. It’s like “love at first shot”. So, the only thing to do is FRAG ON!!!
#2. Taking the guitar for a spin
The guy is supposed to surprise you with that serenade, accompanying himself on a guitar, right? Well, yes, but an even bigger surprise would be for him to be on the receiving end of such a surprise. There is nothing sexier than the soft voice of a girl, who’s also strumming a guitar.
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#3. Making the opening move in the game of love
It is really not that hard, girls. Approach him first, complement him, make a flirty remark or just wish him something nice. Boys love it when you make the first move. Just as it feels for you when you are asked out on a date, it makes them feel wanted and special.
#4. Keep up with them when out drinking
Even if it sounds hard to believe, guys like it when you are yourself around them, meaning that you are also able to enjoy the occasional pint(s). Don’t worry, they will not think less of you, on the contrary. It will help them relate easier to you and form a bond that goes well beyond the surface.
#5. A few foul words
Are you worried that you dropped a few “F” bombs in his presence? Worry no more. As opposed to women, who usually dislike filthy-mouthed men, men like it when the girl they are with is not afraid to speak her mind. It makes it easier for them to feel comfortable around you and look at you as a friend instead of just an acquaintance. Be careful though, not to go full throttle, because they will just perceive you as plain filthy, and they don’t like that (except in very rare cases).
#6. Unhook the social media drip from your vein
You are on a date with him. There’s no harm in checking your social media accounts on your device from time to time, right? Wrong! When a man is taking you out on a date, he really prefers you focus your attention on him, as he does on you. No updating your status, checking, replying or doing whatever else on the phone. Just be there, in the moment, with your date. You will not regret it.
#7. Attractive teeth
A luminous smile can win over even the most hardened heart. And when you smile, the first thing your guy notices are your pearly whites. If they are white, that is. It is a good idea to take good care of your teeth for both health and heart reasons. Brush twice a day, floss every other day, go in for the occasional bleaching. Your smile will light up the whole room, including your beau’s heart.
#8. Smudged makeup
Don’t despair If your makeup doesn’t look like the cover of Vogue. An entire team of artists worked on that one. You did yours by your lonesome self. Give yourself a little break. You will not be labeled careless or casual. And anyway, men like you better with no makeup on, as your beautiful, natural self. And, even if there is a smudge in your makeup, that will only make their heart race faster in your presence. Surprisingly, men will like you more if you look like a simple girl, than if you look like a supermodel.
#9. Not hurrying to dress up
After a night (or day) filled with passion, take your time before getting out of bed and going for your clothes. There is almost no bigger turn-off for a man. Stay a bit longer between the sheets, enjoy the afterglow, cuddle a bit longer, maybe have a nice little talk with him. Both of you will enjoy doing this. And, often enough, the passion might just continue for another night (or day).
#10. Not trying to always look sexy
Have you ever heard the expression “trying too hard”? Men have a special sense that detects a woman who is “trying too hard” all the time. It is nice and even a good idea to look sexy and seductive on special occasions, but don’t overdo it. It just comes off as fake, and nobody wants to seem fake. You can make a man fall in love with you even if you sometimes roam around the house barefoot, wearing nothing but a baggy t-shirt or sweatshirt. So, don’t feel guilty to sometimes ditch the little red/black dress, the stilettos and the elaborate makeup and just be your normal, natural self. This might just earn you his undivided love and attention.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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