Everyone needs love. This feeling makes our life happy and bright. All people deserve to love and to be loved, and when they meet someone special they think that this is a true love. Unfortunately, sometimes people are wrong.
Very often people confuse love with lust. Of course, these feelings have some similar features, but in general, they are different and bring different things into our lives. Only true love can make us really happy. That’s why it is important to understand what you really feel to the other person.
Here are 7 signs that it’s lust pretending to be love. This information will help you to understand your feelings to your partner and see how they treat you. In this way you’ll be able to build happy and healthy relationship. Let’s start.
When people are connected just with lust, they think about their appearance a lot. They want to look perfect and do everything possible to impress their partner. However, when people really love each other, they don’t pay attention to hairstyle or dress of their partner.
Very often people underestimate the role of conversations in the romantic relationship. However, they are wrong. It’s a perfect way to get to know each other better, become closer, and even avoid fights.
When people are in love, they are also friends for each other. Their relationship is filled with meaningful conversations. They talk about everything they want, including their problems, dreams and plans, trust each other, and in this way become closer. However, when people don’t love each other, they don’t feel comfortable talking with each other.
#3 They look like sin
In other words, when the relationship is based on lust, we consider our partners to be perfect. We just don’t see any flaws. However, when people really love each other, they see these flaws and accept them. They understand that no one is perfect, and love each other regardless all the obstacles.
#4 Your time is spent tumbling
Of course, sex is an important part of romantic relationship. However, it shouldn’t be the only one way to show your feelings to each other. When people really love each other, they spend a lot of time together looking for fun and new memories. They go for walks, visit galleries and museums and spend time really great.
#5 Emotional connection
When people really love each other, they feel comfortable even sitting in silence. They feel each other without any words. However, when the relationship is based on lust, they feel awkward, if they have nothing to talk about.
#6 Only bedroom
The partners, whose relationship is based just on lust, have no any bright and pleasant memories except the time they have spent at the bedroom. They just haven’t done anything else.
When people really love each other, they think about their future together. It’s completely OK to think about their plans, house, and stuff like that. However, when the partners have no plans for future and everything they talk about is their desire and future dates, they don’t love each other. It’s just lust.
So, as you can see, there is a difference between love and lust. Lust can never make people happy for a long time or help them build a strong family. Only true love can make us happy and fill our life with harmony.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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