Starting a relationship with a partner, everyone hopes that it will last as long as possible and everything will be good. Such relationship, as a rule, arise on the basis of a deep impulse, strong enough to cause the desire for a long-term connection.
The original love at the first sight goes into a state of love, which (if the feelings are mutual) gives life completely unexpected colors! We idealize the partner, and he idealizes us, and we walk along the road of life hand in hand, confident that nothing can destroy this connection.
Of course, we want this state to last as long as possible, and maybe forever, some people even go so far in their dreams! Meanwhile, as our relationship develops, we gradually realize how difficult it is to reconcile our ideal of the couple with our everyday reality, which in many ways restricts us and sometimes seems boring.
This obsession with the longevity of the couple is in the soul of each and every one of us. What is it - the need to become a continuation of the embellished image of the parent family? Is it the desire not to feel lonely? Or to be protected from all life problems?
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Everyone has his own answer. In any case, the question of how long the union will last is the heart of the relationship in any couple, no matter what moment in its development it is experiencing. This test will help you understand at what stage of the relationship is your couple:
First of all, make two lists: the first about his good qualities (the qualities you like most of all in your partner), the second about his bad qualities (the qualities you like least of all in your partner). Then write down your life expectations.
Put plus or minus near each point according to the opportunity of your partner to fulfil your life expectations. After doing all this, ask yourself a simple question whether you partner is doing your life better and more interesting.
Now, you can he whether this man is worth spending time with him or not. If you see that the answer is negative, try not to be upset. There is definitely a man who can respond all your life expectations and who can make you happy.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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