When we fall in love with someone and start a relationship together, it seems that we can’t get enough of each other, like ever. It continues for some period, but then you come to the understanding that maybe you have reached the point to be almost full. There is nothing wrong with it because it is nice for a change instead of wild humping to have a decent chat, right?

This is how most of the relationships works, physical attraction is nothing but instinct while all that remains is a lot deeper connection and it should be certainly valued and appreciated. But it feels like there is a lingering ‘but ’in the air – what is that?

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The thing is that your sexual life stops, it does not bother you for a while, but then all the bad thoughts are crawling into your head. What if he does not want me anymore because I am too fat? What if he has found someone pretty and younger than me? What if? What if?

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Many of you will understand what we are driving at because this is the typical response of every woman. But instead of tormenting yourself with these thoughts there is a way to check what is going on – talk to him! There is nothing better to clarify the state of affairs rather than direct conversation.

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You may say that the answer will be predictable – he is tired, there is too much on his mind and things like that. That is when your rational mind steps in – think about it – does he work more than ever recently to support the family? Are there some big issues to resolve at work?

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In case you come up with a positive answer to these questions then he is indeed tired, and instead of whining about his low libido it is better to hug him and support him with anything he needs, it will surely repay, and who knows maybe even in a way you were afraid of never to happen!

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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