Very often it happens so that you end up doing something you haven’t intended to in the first place. Has it ever occurred to you? If it has you are undoubtedly already reflecting – how did it come to this. In most cases, we are manipulated by others into doing something we do not plan. People who trick you or push you towards the goal you didn’t set are called manipulators.
In most cases, the manipulator is the closest to you person, and it is pretty difficult at time to figure out that the person is using you. We say using because manipulation is a way of getting something that you want through the prism of other people. What is more, too often it happens so that people who manipulate you blame you for the thing you are not actually responsible for.
When you are surrounded by people like that, it is apparently hard to live by your own rules, and that decrease the equality of your like. That is why today we decided to discuss the issue of avoiding the manipulators. You may be surprised, but a set of easy tips and trick will save from manipulation.
Manipulator usually wishes for a straight answer given to them the minute they confronted you. The best way to back down is to say that you are not able to answer straight away and that needs time to think about it. Once you consider the request and find it somehow damaging to you – you just say ‘no’ to a manipulator, even if he remains pushy – you stand your ground.
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Of course, the best way to avoid manipulator is put distance between you. But how do you know who is who? The answer is simple; you just observe the way the manipulator treats others.
If there is a dramatic difference of attitude towards different people you should better go back and try not to get involved in such a person’s business.
Last but not least, the best way to avoid the manipulation is always to think what is there for you? If there is nothing you benefit from – why take part? As simple as that!
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