When people are together for a long time, they get used to each other, and that is where the routine begins. Not that is bad, but it is certainly boring. You feel more like roommates around each other rather than lovers or people in love.

No one says that the feeling is gone, they are still there, but both of you already know how you feel about each other, and it seems like there is no use of showing it. But while that boredom continues, it may trigger something not that pleasant and while one thing goes into another – affairs happen.

To prevent that from happening we suggest you a list of options to spice your relationship up and to bring that spark back to life!

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#1. Communication

Nothing brings two people closer to each other than a fair share of communication. No matter what it is you are talking about – just do not forget about it!

#2. Small things

It is a fact that small things matter, like holding hands, kissing each other out in the open – remember the way it was before? Time to revive it!

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#3. Complements

No matter how long you have been together, you should still never forget about complimenting each other.

#4. Time together

We are all busy, and sometimes all we want is some sleep. But it is highly important that you plan your time together, the time that will belong just to you two and no one else.

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#5. Foreplay

For many couples that have been together for a while, sex is just another routine. Spice it up, give some space to foreplay, and use your imagination.

#6. First date

Why not get into some role-playing and recreate your and relive your first date> how fun would be that?

#7. Sexting

Sexting is a thing, and it works, do not think that if you have been together forever, you do not need those little tricks.

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#8. Fantasies

It is time to think about trying out your fantasies; there is nothing better to light the fire than the experimentation!

#9. Porn

Porn is bad; everyone says that. But when the couples watch porn together they find out that new depths of each other, find out what turns the partner on and what doesn’t. It is still worth trying.

#10. Masturbation

Masturbating together is a thing too, this is yet another way to learn more about each other.

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#11. Toys

Sharing or trying out or using toys in your bedroom adds so much more passion to your relationship that it is hard to describe. Try it!

#12. Experimentation

Last but not least, it is never too late or too early to experiment!

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

You can help us spread this love by sharing this with those around you and letting us know what you think in the comments below.

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