Breaking up is never easy that is the fact. But the thing is that breaking up is rarely forever. Of course, there are cases when once and for all is the only best option, yet in a long-term relationship, there is a chance of mending the relationship.
The trick lies in your ability to reflect. No matter the circumstances that triggered the break up you still need some time to think about what just happened. When there is a distance between you, there appears a fresh view of the situation. Why is that you may wonder? The thing is that together with your partner you fall under each other’s influence whether you like it or not and whether you realize it or not, but when you are apart things change.
Now, when you are apart, you may wonder why you would like to change the freedom you attained to the things the way they were. That is a nice question, and if you are aware of the fact that nothing will change, then there is no need to consider fixing the broken.
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But when there is even the slightest uncertainty as to what the inevitable happened, whose fault it was and whether you able to try to fix it together – the perspective changes, doesn’t it?
Very often it happens so that people who have been together for a while grow too attached to each other, and after a while, that attachment becomes too boring and becomes that one initiative that triggers the breakup, of course, there are options as cheating and so one, but let’s not go that far. Sometimes people just decide to break up because they are bored with each other, but they rarely get to the core of that boredom.
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When there is a distance between you and you brood upon what new things happen to either of during the past few months you may conclude that your inactivity as a couple and as a person lead to such an outcome. What is more, it is not that bad, and there are dozens of ways to fix such a relationship and never let it get to that point ever again!
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