It happens so that sometimes we end up in the situations we didn’t intend to or planned in the first place. You may think that this is a kind of sequence of events or anything of the kind. But what if someone put you in that place at the exact time without you even realizing it?
If you think that we are going to talk about some magic – no, we are going to talk about manipulations and manipulators. Very often it is even difficult to realize that you are being manipulated because the manipulator is very good at what he is doing. What is more, manipulative people are often the ones that are closest to you. And today we are going to discuss nine characteristics of a manipulator so that you can easily find out the people you should rather distance yourself from.
#1 It is all about personal benefit
Manipulative people rarely think about the outcome of the situation they are going to put you in. What interests them most is what’s in there for them and if you fail – it is no one’s fault but yours.
They do not exist for manipulative people. If you find that someone finds it natural to get into your personal space, use your free time to their advantage, etc. – that is it, you have met a manipulator.
Anything that happens is no responsibility of theirs when it comes to a manipulative people.
Manipulators are great at sensing kind people and using them to their advantage. Very often it all starts with them telling you how great you are and then just using you over time. Be careful!
#5 Talking behind the back
Listen carefully what you are being told about people when they are not around. Manipulators usually talk bad about people behind their backs if you spotted such a person – try to stay away from him as far as possible.
If you mean the person who refuses to accept you for who you are – there is no use to explain yourself, just distance yourself from such a person.
Do not fall for words, judge by action.
Very often your intuition tells you who is right and who is wrong to be around, listen to yourself this feeling rarely turns out to be untrue.
Stick to your beliefs because once you deviate – manipulators will find a way to substitute your beliefs for theirs. Beware of that!
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