We all know that lying is bad. In order to build healthy relationships, we should be honest, polite and committed. But let's face it: life is a complicated thing and sometimes a lie for a good reason is a good lie.
Does your partner really needs to know something about your sexual history? Would it really help things if your partner learned your real feelings about his family members? On both questions, the answer is no, your partner shouldn't know the whole truth.
Sometimes a white lie can be used to build healthy, happy relationships. That is why in this article, we would like to show you thirteen secrets you should hide from your partner. Are you interested? Scroll down to read about them right now.
#1. Your sexual past
Your sexual history is not something you want to shout about from the rooftops. We all are different and you cannot predict how your current partner will react to your sexual history. It is better to keep this information to yourself.
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#2. The way you behave when you are alone
Doing weird thing when you are alone is a completely normal thing. We all do that. So if you like eating a ton of sweets while watching Netflix all day, it is not necessary to reveal it to your boyfriend.
#3. Your doubts about relationships
No matter how strongly you feel about your boyfriend, it is completely natural to feel confused about the relationship once in a while. Make sure you don't share your doubts with your partner, until you deal with them on your own.
#4. That you wish your partner was more ambitious
Don’t try to change your partner. It won’t help you anyway and it may also destroy everything you’ve built.
#5. Your real feelings about his family members
That is the most important secret to keep. You don’t need to say that you love his mother, just be supportive and treat her with respect.
#6. Don't criticize something your boyfriend can't change
If you truly love your man, you should accept him for who he is.
#7. You think that one of his friends is handsome
It is okay to be attracted to one of his close friends. But if you truly love your man and want to save this relationship, you won't tell him you feel sympathy for his handsome friend.
#8. You manage your own money the way you want
Every woman need to have her personal money to spend on little things that your man doesn’t know about.
#9. You've had better sex
You may have dozens of wonderful partners, but this isn’t something you should share with your current man.
#10. Negative things your family and friends say about him
If you feel that negative commentaries of your friends and family are unfounded, you should keep it in secret from your partner.
#11. That you weren’t initially attracted to him
We don't always feel attraction at first glance. So you shouldn't mention that it took some time for you to become attracted to your current partner, as it may offend him.
#12. That your ex was more successful
Don't tell your partner that your ex was better in that relationship, as it may ruin your relationship.
#13. That you think your partner should slim down
That is the worst thing you can say to someone.
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