Everyone dreams of a lasting and happy love. However, this is something unattainable, which is still a dream. We are used to see beautiful love stories in the movies, we read about them in books, but we are not used to showing them in our lives. Why is everything so difficult?
Many people do not know how to keep their relationship and love; they make a lot of mistakes that eventually lead to divorce and breakup. After a certain period of time, they begin to date with other people, but again they make the same mistakes…and again breakups and divorces.
What is the secret of lasting relationship? How can you keep your relationship forever? Agree that it is very cool to watch older couples who are still together after so many years. And this is not a movie, it’s reality! Without a doubt, this is a very difficult job on the part of both partners, but it's worth it!
A long-term relationship is definitely one of the most adventurous journeys that anyone will ever willingly choose to travel. If there is only one piece of advice that could be offered, it would be this: relationships are investments, not trades. Scroll down to see a list of 5 lessons on building a lasting relationship!
#1. You have to work on your relationship every day
Most people prefer to pay more attention to their partners only on holidays and important events. This is a gross mistake! Three days a year to show how much you love someone is not enough. Learn to give love to your partner every day; you do not need to give expensive gifts, simple things and care, this is true love.
#2. The decision is yours
Sometimes it may seem to you that you are the one who constantly does something for your relationship. Stop it! Your partner as well as you need rest. The goal is to love others as much as you love yourself. Love yourself, love your partner, love your relationship…and do everything to keep it lasting and happy. The decision is yours!
#3. Communication is the key to a lasting relationship
Communicate with each other…constantly. Communication is never enough; its opposite may be not too much that then can lead to bad consequences. Tell each other about your day, discuss problems, your friends and relatives, share your plans for the future.
#4. There must be a spiritual component to your relationship
The amount of time you spend together exploring your spirituality is important, even if you come from two very different faiths. Help each other study your faith deeper, revealing its deep secrets and gaining complete happiness. You may not believe in God, but there is something you believe 100%, share it with your partner.
#5. You need time to have fun
We are all busy people; work, home, kids, etc. However, you must give each other time and enjoy it (just the two of you). One of the best ways to have fun is to experience something you both have never done before. Do such activities that bring you pleasure and fun, it will definitely benefit your relationship. And remember that everything is in your hands!
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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