Very often it happens so that we fall under the influence of a manipulator without even knowing or realizing it. The thing is that all manipulators are great at psychology and they know which button to push to make you do anything they want. What is more, if the outcome is not the desired one – you are going to be the one to blame.
That is why many people recommend to stay as far away from such people as possible. But then the question arises – how do I know that he or she is a manipulator? The fact is that all manipulators are pretty much alike and today we are going to list a number of phrases all manipulators use and once you hear them – you better run for your life!
#1. You didn’t get it right
This phrase makes you overthink your priorities, or requests so that you start doubting yourself and that is the main aim of a manipulator.
#2. There is always something wrong with you
Whenever there is a real issue to discuss a manipulator will try to deviate your stream of thoughts as far away from it as possible.
#3. So I am the bad guy?
No matter what has been done or said a manipulator would try to twist your perception so that in the end you are the one who is feeling guilty.
#4. You can trust me
When someone says that you can absolutely trust him – this is the clear sign that you shouldn’t.
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#5. Shame on you!
This is the way a manipulator want to lower your self-esteem no matter what has been done and whose fault it is.
#6. It is not that important
Sometimes the main aim of a manipulator to make you feel paranoid and that is when they say that you overthink everything and pay too much attention to unimportant things.
#7. Why the drama?
At first, a manipulator will try to make you feel like you are special and then they will try to belittle you but pointing at your flaws.
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