A lot of people can say that life is nothing without real friendship. It is great happiness to have a faithful friend who will be with you both in joy and in sorrow, who will come to the rescue when you are particularly in need of it.
Only true friends can understand that something is wrong with you, even when you smile. However, sometimes life parts us with, it would seem, the closest people. This is normal, because we are changing, and our friends are also changing.
Sometimes it can be destructive to communicate with a person. The main thing is to recognize it in time. These signals indicate that it is time to get ready to say good-bye and to live your life. Look at them, maybe it is time to bring some changes to your life:
#1. You often quarrel. Yes, there are conflicts between all friends, but if almost every meeting ends with a quarrel, this is a sign that you are incompatible. Friendship should be fun, not stressful and disappointing.
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#2. Envy and competition. If you feel the need to constantly prove something to a friend, you will feel not comfortable, but exhausted. Friendship is support and encouragement, and not a race ahead, who is better.
#3. If this friendship brings nothing in your life. Let's be honest: if someone wants to be a part of your life, it is noticeable. Just like guests come to your home with some kind of treat, in the same way a friend brings something new and useful to your life. Maybe he always supports you. Maybe he can always cheer. He just knows how to listen.
#4. Friendship should be mutual, as well as the efforts made in it. If you constantly try to pull a friend out for a walk, and he constantly does not have time, or he never calls you first, then you should think about whether you need to chase someone who does not chase you. Stop wasting energy on those who do not appreciate it.
#5. Control or manipulation. If you do not feel yourself well in this friendship, give it up. Some people like to be the main ones in the company or have a friend as their own servant, the imitator and so on. Well, like the friendship of many girls in school, when there is a leader and everyone else is trying to match her. Some people like such behavior even in adulthood.
#6. Tell me, who is your friend ... Is your friend a good person? If you even hesitated for a second, then think about how his reputation affects you. Most likely, people perceive you the same as your friend. You can even learn his bad behavior. Be careful with friends, because you are associated with them.
#7. You spend more time thinking about the past than about the future. We all have friends from school or university. However, you should not continue to actively cooperate with them only because you have a common past. People grow up and it is normal. Some people turn into those that we no longer like. It is not necessary to keep relationship simply from a tribute to the past.
#8. Friendship has a negative effect on your self-esteem. Friendship is about helping each other survive in this world, and not poke your nose at how miserable we are. If you feel worse from this friendship, it is worth to break with this friend.
#9. All your hangouts end up in a hangover. Perhaps you have a friend to have a good time, to go to bars or to drink a glass with. However, if each of your meetings is accompanied by alcoholic libations, and in the morning you feel bad from drinking the day before and you are ashamed to remember yesterday's evening, this is an alarming bell.
#10. You are often silent. Friendly and loving relationships are good and productive when they are a full-fledged partnership. At the same time, you give and receive approximately in equal parts, and we are not just talking about material things. If in all conversations your friend almost all the time speaks about what is interesting to him, and you just nod and do not have time to insert a word, this is normal only in one case: you are a psychologist and he is your client, but not your friend.
#11. You share only bad news. Friendship, like marriage, is designed for the fact that you are together in sorrow and in joy. When you start talking only about negative, saving good news for someone else, these relationships do not work quite rightly.
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