What a joy it is to fall in love! And what a tragedy for your feeling not to be reciprocated. But it does happen in real life when we choose someone but they don’t choose us.

What happiness to fall in love with! And what a tragedy not to get reciprocity. But this happens in a life where it often does not coincide, when "we choose, they choose us."

Unrequited love takes us hostage, often depriving us of the ability to think rationally and paralyzing our normal daily life. Below, we’ll try to help you deal with your one-sided feelings.

First of all, as yourself why is it that you think this man does not have any feelings for you? Clearly, if he embraces another woman as you’re watching, calls her affectionate names. But if he is looking at you the same way he looks at everyone, it does not mean he hasn’t noticed you. Perhaps it's too early for you to classify your feelings as one-sided.

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Psychologists advise to confess your feelings. Women, to their surprise, often find out that the feeling’s mutual after they make a bold confession!

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So instead of thinking that the man you are in love with isn’t in love with you, think that he may not yet considered the possibility of starting a relationship with you. The absence of a "yes" does not mean "no" yet!

#1. Win him over !

If the object of your desire is not a Hollywood actor, a famous singer or a Nobel laureate, and if chasing a man does not contradict your principles, act!

Don’t forget, though, that you are a woman, and by throwing the world at his feet, you are unlikely to achieve a harmonious relationship. Do things unobtrusively, don’t reveal your cards, “accidentally” find yourself in same places as him, learn about his interests. But don’t conceal the fact that you like him, your feelings will serve as a lure that will help your man make the right decision. If you have no common interests, it becomes a more difficult task, but then it’s up to you to decide if you will be "interested" in the things he likes without losing your individuality.

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Try to show more personality in a company, take the conversation or matters into your own hands. Show him who you are without putting yourself on a pedestal, be honest and natural. Do not distance yourself by saying “You're sitting there and can’t see what you're missing”. Try to get closer, invite him for a dance, start a conversation.

But don’t be too clingy, man are usually annoyed when women are trying too actively to invade their personal space.

#2. Keep waiting

If you are not yet ready to admit to yourself that your love is unrequited, and you are still ready to do something about it, then there is only one thing left. To wait. Be yourself, smile, make friends and wait. Maybe someday, something will click in his head, and he will understand that happiness has always been there, and he was looking for it in all the wrong places. If you decide to keep waiting, try to lead a more active life. Agree to parties and trips. Do not forget to put your makeup on, try new hairstyles.

Having fun while broken-hearted is hard. But you shouldn’t say no to other fulfilling aspects of your life. You will not achieve anything because it is unlikely that any man will want to be near an unhappy girl with eyes puffy from crying. Sooner or later, you will probably have to admit it’s time to stop waiting for your feelings to be returned.

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#3. Forget and move on

You kept chasing and waiting, or was it evident from the very beginning that he does not like you in that way? He’s friends with you but he does not love you. How do you move on?

Well, which do you feel stronger - the love for him, or the desire for him to love you? The say that unrequited love is often tied to selfishness. Do you imagine the two of you together? Do you make a good match? Will he be happy with you?

Now is not the time to prove anything. Crises are best time for cultivating self-awareness and growth. Who do you love more - him or yourself? If you are ready to jump off the cliff for him, this is not love, but if you are ready to step over your feelings and let him go, then this is true love. Start reading books on self-development, they will help you understand yourself better and let go of what you don’t need. Share with your close friends what is going on with you and how you feel so they can evaluate your actions through a sober and cold lens and, if necessary, help you cool.

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All you need is a change from “He does not love me, it's impossible to live with" to “He does not love me, how do I move on?”

Just live, fill your life with new impressions, memories, experiences. Try taking up hobbies, new and old.

Talk to the subject of your affections. But what about, if everything is already clear? However, if he is an adequate person who is able to understand other people's feelings, such conversation will help you draw a line under this whole story and open up for new opportunities. Even a short but personal and sincere heart-to-heart will do. If he doesn’t get you, even better! It will be easier for you to get over him.

If there is no opportunity to talk, just say everything out loud. Thank him, forgive him, ask for forgiveness, scold him, tell him about your feelings and say that you decided to end it.

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Meet new people. Let other men enter your life! Blue eyes will replace green eyes. Most importantly, you will get to know how reciprocity in the relationship feels. You will see that there are other men in the world who will wait for you and appreciate you! Talk to happy people more, focus on yourself, pay more attention to your friends, family and your work.

It will pass. Life loves those who enjoy who they are, but not those who suffer from the absence of what does not belong to them. Love yourself first!

Have you ever experienced one-sided love in your life?

It will pass. Life loves those who enjoy who they are, but not those who suffer from the absence of what does not belong to them. Love yourself first!

Have you ever experienced one-sided love in your life?

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

You can help us spread this love by sharing this with those around you and letting us know what you think in the comments below.

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