Even if you are the friendliest person in the world, sooner or later you will meet someone who will annoy you. Successful people know how to cope with this situation. Do not worry, if you do not like someone. We are all different. This reaction reminds us that no one is perfect. Including ourselves.

If a person does not isolate himself from the society, he has to deal with different people. Communication is pleasant not with absolutely everyone. It is good, if you do not talk to such people often. What is it possible to do if there are unpleasant people among relatives, friends, co-workers or neighbors?

Often such communication causes only irritation and spoils the mood for the whole day. How to learn to communicate with people who are unpleasant to you? How to cope with your annoyance about someone else's behavior, other people's shortcomings? Here are eight secrets:

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#1. Resign yourself to the fact that you can not get along with everyone. This is normal. Someone likes you, but someone does not tolerate you.

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This does not mean that something is wrong with you or with others. Simply, each of us has our own preferences. The decisive role in this is the difference in the characters. An extrovert will seem a boring to another introvert, and a convinced realist may seem inadequate to the optimistic mood of another optimist. We tend to invest in what we like. Suppose you are annoyed by one of your friends or colleagues. Of course, you will not look for him to meet and keep in touch. Sometimes this approach can grow into an open dislike.

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#2. Try to understand the interlocutor. Do not be angry, if there really is a good reason for criticism in your address. You just expose yourself in a bad light. Just take a critical remark on the armament.

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#3. Keep your emotions under control. Your reaction to this or that situation depends only on you. It can infuriate you, if you allow it. Do not waste your energy in vain. Do not give in if someone is hurting you or trying to make you mad. It is very important to treat each person with respect from the start. However, this does not mean that you should always and at any occasion agree with everyone.

#4. Do not take everything to heart. Very often we just misunderstand a person. Perhaps he just did not express his thought correctly, or his day did not come up from the morning. Do not break down on someone, because he can fall back on you in return. This will only exacerbate the situation. Be above it, concentrate on the matter, not paying attention to the inadequate reaction of the interlocutor.

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#5. Speak calmly. Our manner of communication is often much more important than what we say. If the situation is heated, then it is time to talk about it. Nevertheless, the dialogue should not be aggressive. Sometimes you should call a third person for help. Another person can objectively assess the situation. Perhaps, after the dialogue you will not become friends with this person, but, at least, you can communicate normally.

#6. Prioritize. Not everything deserves your time and attention. You have to decide, if you really want to keep in touch with this or that person or better concentrate, for example, at work. Weigh the situation. Will it worsen over time? Sooner or later the problem will have to be solved. If the conflict is ripe simply by coincidence, then you can quickly cope with it.

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#7. Do not take defensive positions. If you feel a constant dissatisfaction with you from someone else's side, if someone focuses only on your shortcomings, you should not rush to this person with your fists. This is not a way out. This behavior will only provoke him. Instead, it is better to ask directly what exactly he does not like. Gossip or oppression can be a sign that he wants to manipulate or even demonstrate his power over you.

#8. Remember that you are the creator of your happiness. Of course, it is difficult to soberly assess the situation, if someone is really getting on your nerves. However, never let others pull you down. If someone's words really hurt you for living things, sort out yourself. Maybe you are not confident in yourself or you are concerned about some working moments. If this is the case, concentrate on solving the most important problems for you.

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