When we first end up in a relationship, it seems to be all rainbows and unicorns, and after some time we understand that there is nothing but the reality that relationship is built on. Of course, it does not mean that it has to be necessarily bad, sometimes reality is just amazing as a fairytale, you have a great time together, you laugh, you make love, and you visit places and so on.
Yet, there is the case when something goes south, and the affair happens. Of course, the reasons for that may be various, and we are not going to dwell on them today. But once it strikes you in most cases, the relationship is ruined or pretty close to it. As a matter of fact, affairs can be different. That is correct, with the appearance of all this technology and all the online possibilities the new type of affair appeared and it even has a name already – micro-cheating.
So how does it look like? Are you a micro-cheater? Is it contagious? Is it dangerous? There are so many questions to answer and to tell you the truth some question still lack the answer. But first things first, micro-cheating if your private correspondence with a person of opposite sex that your partner clearly does not know about.
Very often we are attracted to the person we micro-cheat with; we tend to share out deepest secrets with them, we complain, we talk about life, well, basically everything you should be doing with your real partner you do with that online person.
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As for the fact why something like this happens, there is no one, clear answer since we all have our reasons but as for whether or not it is dangerous – it is. Such a micro affair can ruin your relationship in a blink of an eye, and you should be aware of it, unless you are trying to end your current relationship, of course.
The best way to deal with is to talk to your partner or to ask yourself what is that you really want, if you value your relationship then you will stop if not – well, you know the odds.
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