Men always have questions about women. Especially, about their beloved women. It often happens that there can be questions that men do not dare to ask their women, although curiosity dismounts. One of the things that men are afraid to ask women is, as you correctly understood, sex.
Men are usually interested in what they can do or experiment in bed to get more pleasure from sexual interactions. Sometimes curiosity is the result of some deeply entrenched sexual fantasies, but for the most part this is the result of what they encounter in magazines or videos.
Men are visual beings, and when it comes to sex, they are attracted to sexual images. Besides sex, men are also afraid to ask about some of the female habits that they consider bizarre. These include some habits in choosing clothes or shoes, as well as how women communicate (or can not communicate) with men.
Most of these habits can be considered trivial, but they are, indeed, a secret for men. Trivial or not, but these things have one thing in common: men simply can not force themselves to ask about them, because they are afraid that this will affect their relationship. Let’s look at the most interesting confessions of men that they are afraid to speak loudly about:
#1. Man 1: Is she with me for money? A woman gives physical intimacy, a man gives attention, financial well-being, reliability. A woman needs a man to appreciate her soul and brains. A man needs to know that he is loved for appearance and sex. In love, the first impression is initially important. If you remove all conventions and leave naked people on the island, they will choose partners using their eyes. This is the most natural! Women are further away from nature, and men continue to choose their women for beauty and are very worried that they act differently.
Why is she with me? Probably because of my money? Or because of my car? Am I good at sex? In any case, she obviously needs something from me! When the romantic period ends, other questions arise. Is she spending too much money? Does she love me, or does she still use me? Here the woman should be more careful - just do not provoke appearing of complexes in her man! Something like, she is inattentive to my business. She does not appreciate my joke. I bought something for her, and she took it for granted, even did not say thank you. Men are much more vulnerable and not sure of themselves than women.
#2. Man 2: What do I want from her? Is she the right person for me? Can we stay together for a long time? Do I love her? There are, of course, happy moments when you do not think about anything like that, but just enjoy moments. However, all the rest of the time, doubts torment my inner world. I try to keep these thoughts to myself. In extreme cases, I can share with the closest friends. I would like to see everything in my personal life simple and clear, but, as practice shows, there is a worm of doubt in me, which prevents this idyll, makes me move forward. I think I need to live for some more years and understand something for myself. Priorities must change.
#3. Man 3: Is she worthy to be with me? The English say: the mind is a person's ability to analyze, the ability to see and understand. So it is very good that men have questions. Life without emotions is not life. Doubt can arise at any time and is applicable to all areas of life - from sex to communication with other people. It should be remembered that a man is a very simple being. He needs to hear good things about himself. He needs to be sure that a woman likes him, that she respects him, worships, is in love with him. When something from this chain disappears, he begins to think that she is unworthy of him.
#4. Man 4: How much can I forgive her? Today you can forgive a woman for betrayal and lying, and tomorrow you do not forgive even the smallest thing. Today you are ready to love someone for nothing, and tomorrow you have a claim to a talented harmonious person. Everyone wants understanding – men, women, children, parents, grandmothers, and grandfathers. Men want women to understand them and respect their interests. However, absolute understanding, probably is not interesting. Love is a biochemical connection. There is no logic. Otherwise, we would be too rational - not people, but robots.
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