A cult psychologist Eric Bern, in his book, "Games in which people play," reveals how we reproduce the same scenarios, repeating things or words all the time, and how others react to them. So, for example, men can have nervous tick from some female roles.

Sometimes there one phrase is enough to bring them to the state of a boiling kettle. It is important to know exactly what phrases ladies should not use. We have collected 9 phrases, which should be avoided in dealing with boyfriends and men.

See what effect they have and what kind of game they open. It is quite possible that, having got rid of them, you will break this circle. So, do not wait for something and look at these phrases, avoiding them will improve your relationship:

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#1. What should I dress? This classic problem can be seed in many comedies, but it does not lose its popularity.

#2. Who is texting you? It is not so easy to overcome the desire to check his phone or private messages. It will cause not the best reaction, because even a simple chattering with a former classmate can be interpreted in different ways.

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#3. Too many details. It has been proved that the male brain perceives information in a different way. Girls love discuss in details, but the guys immediately go to the bottom line.

#4. Making an elephant out of a fly. To create a storm in a glass of water is a woman's nature. However, regular quarrels on the empty place is irritating to all men without exception.

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#5. Wait, I have not made a photo yet. Social networks are a part of our society. Sometimes you just have to eat your food, to admire the show, and to discuss news with your girlfriend at the next meeting, without making photos of everything.

#6. I will do it myself. Asking for help is not a weakness but a way to strengthen relationships.

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#7. Ultimatum. Men try in every way to avoid ultimatums.

#8. Would you like to spend the night with Angelina Jolie? Relax, it is in vain jealousy, he can even degrade his wish list.

#9. I am so unhappy. You can find many reasons for sorrow, but a woman who is constantly crying is frightening.

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