Women might not like this article, but they should understand the situation to change their life for the better. We can see an interesting position of women: "I try not to praise my husband on people - he will be too proud of himself!".
In general, this is right - to praise a man is not worth it. Praise is an act, directed from the top down, from the one who approves, because he is competent in this matter. In other words - from father to child. Since a woman is not a father, then it is not necessary to praise her man.
Instead of praise, it is great to show your admire. This is like the level of relationship between two adults. Recognize how good it is when a woman feels the joyful satisfaction of her husband. She is fascinated by his agility, enthralled by his ability to make a shelf and to move the closet.
"I will not say good words to him, because he will be too proud of himself"
She is admired by his ability to throw dirty socks in a linen basket without reminding. It is very good. However, most prefer to accept a partner for a slave. Both men and women suffer from this. The position "I will not say good words to him, because he will be too proud of himself" seriously poison life to many men.
Men, thanks to this position, live in a constant sense of incompetence. He earns little money, and does not communicate with the children, and the work is bad, and his friends are not good. All the time - reproach. In the best case – silence.
What does this lead to?
This can lead, for example, to alcoholism or to playing computer games. Alcohol lets people forget about problems, computer game gives them a sense of competence. Men make a sad conclusion: "I have not lived a full life." So, a man leaves his wife.
The most interesting thing in this story - why do women do that? In fact - why does she treat her husband as a servant, and still convinces herself that he can become too proud of himself? A woman thinks that while her husband is low self-esteem, he will not go anywhere.
A woman tries to control her husband's self-esteem. It seems to women that it allows them to own, to control. Control gives an illusion (only an illusion) of the reliability of such relationships. Gives a ghost of the fact that she will never lose this man.
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