Everyone, for sure, has at least one friend who complains that he is a very nice guy, but women do not notice him and he can not build a relationship. American psychologists believe that the "good guy syndrome" is only a way to justify themselves, and men who try to seem kind and understanding can be manipulators in fact.
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The experts believe that the behavior of a nice guy who, from the first minutes of acquaintance, shows kindness and take a lot of care of a lady, can be the so-called vague contract. The psychologist stresses that this is not about good and kind people who are genuinely nice to others, but about those who try to seem good to build a relationship with a woman.
There is such a type of men- good guy. The representatives of both sexes understand it roughly the same way. This is such a virtuous and conscientious man, respectfully treating all women, elderly people, children and even animals.
A good guy is calm and attentive, without addictions to harmful habits. He does not prone to meanness and crime. He is a positive hero - especially if to put him in one line with the patched bikers, hipsters, clubbers, etc., in general, by all that rabble that usually twists around cute girls. The doctor identifies several signs of the unreal good guy:
#1. Why can’t the so-called “nice guy” just be honest? A young man is sure that once he behaves well, it will certainly make a lady like him.
#2. Is the “nice guy” really that manipulative? Due to this behavior, young people compensate their self-doubt and instead of recognizing their shortcomings, they accuse the opposite sex.
#3. Everyone acts out of self-interest. They think about their desires and needs more.
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#4. Acting on mutual interest. Good guys rarely act out of mutual interests.
#5. What to do with the nice guy. The best thing is to be honest with the opposite sex and to say about feelings without any fear.
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