Usually the love of your life can come only after the biggest disappointment of your life or a mistake. Well, with better scenario, it is one mistake that you have made, but in worse, it is the long path that can eventually lead to love.
Women fall in love faster than men. They are more likely to idealize their partners. However, when we say “mistakes that women make before they find their love”, it is not always about the men they chose. Sometimes, it is about their behavior.
Today we want to tell you, which mistakes women are tend to make before they find someone they can tell they love. Check them out and tick those that you have made in your life.
#1 You hope that love can come after sex for one night.
This is the main mistake of women. Thus, the girl depreciates herself, ceases to be worthy of respect. Neither hold nor tie a man in this way is impossible. If a man has not made the slightest effort to conquer you, you will forever remain in his eyes easy prey. He is ready to part at any moment. In such acts there is not a single gram of self-love. Develop like a woman, appreciate and respect yourself.
#2 You're not ready for action and you wait until he takes the first step.
Many girls are afraid that if they take the initiative, they will make an impression easily accessible, and men will not have the incentive to win them. There is some truth in this, but do not forget that men have even more complexes and fears than we do.
#3 You simply die of the intolerable desire to marry.
Grabbing the man a dead grip, not letting him come to his senses, you immediately spoil everything. He still does not understand how he treats you, and you already put a ring on his finger and choose names for the children. Fear of loneliness and social norms hurry us all in this race for happiness. But here's your advice: stop!
#4 Your do everything to make men like you
You behave as unnaturally as possible, ceasing to be yourself. And he immediately feels your tension, and this is his concern. If you think that your chosen one is the one you need for life, then he simply has to perceive you as you are.
#5 You're too demanding for a potential life companion.
Most likely, you have an excellent student complex - even your own shortcomings have no right to exist, what can we say about the disadvantages of others! Perhaps such a maximalist approach to life helps you to achieve a dizzying career success, but when it comes to personal life, he can play a cruel joke with you.
#6 Your super confident behavior discourage
It is time to remove the mask of what you are not. Psychologists explain this behavior by the fact that you subconsciously defend yourself from injuries that a new romance can inflict on you. If you have a separation behind you - it's time to forget, forgive and let go.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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