You suspected your partner of cheating. You tried to find out the truth in different ways. And everything was confirmed. So, what should you do now? How to behave in such situation? Psychologists share their opinions how to behave when you learn of the betrayal of your partner.
When women find out that their beloved man has cheated on them, they behave differently. Some women are ready to arrange unforgettable disassembly to another woman, but some of them prefer to remain silent and pretend that nothing has happened. Constantly hearing and even recognizing somewhere in the depths of ourselves that all men are polygamous, we can never be ready, if the news of treason is thundering in our family.
The simple essence of this event is always surrounded by so many doubts, explanations and excuses that it is very difficult to make any decision quickly and correctly. Let’s look through the ways we can choose to behave in such difficult situation:
#1. You should try to give your partner a chance to explain what happened and why.
#2. Remember that you are not responsible for his actions. You should not blame yourself.
#3. You should put yourself first and not to forget about your own needs.
#4. Do not be afraid of taking a professional help, if you need.
#5. If his betrayal became the last straw in your trust, this is just a sign that you should leave.
#6. Try to understand where your marriage cracked. Do not forget that in the most cases both of you can be guilty for this.
#7. Try to think what this situation means to you, what you expected from your relationship and from your partner and whether all your expectations were met.
#8. If you decide to give your partner the second chance, you should be sure that he wants to change.
#9. Do not forgive him only because you are afraid of being single and of starting a new life.
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