Love is a strange thing. All people want to love and be loved. However, not all of them are open and able to love. You can feel connected with someone on a very deep level, but at the same, something can be missing. This feeling is similar to feeling a wall between you and your loved one.
It is very difficult to knock on the closed door. They can say, “I love you”, “You mean so much to me…”, but you feel them disappearing. It is unlikely that a person like this will open up to you. What can you do? If you are not feeling the love, firstly, you need to understand yourself. It is important to fill yourself with other things that make you happy. However, if this does not help you, then it’s time to act!
Today, we want to help you with the dilemma. So we have listed 6 reasons you are just not feeling the love. Let’s check them out!
#1. Do not destroy the wall
A person needs this wall, it protects him from his own fears. This person doesn’t feel safe and can’t trust. The thing is, these people are waiting for someone perfect. You don’t need such relationships, and you are not the person who must destroy their wall!
#2. Do not wait until he or she will open the heart
You should take care of yourself and do not wait for miracles. Otherwise, such things may happen: you’ll leave, they’ll leave, or they’ll decide to open up, but it will be too late.
#3. You should do an internal check
You should ask yourself the most important question, “How open and vulnerable are you in this relationship?” Do not play the victim role, you don’t need to. This type of relationship is definitely not about love.
#4. You need to communicate with a partner
You need to remember, during a conversation, that you shouldn’t blame your partner. Otherwise, he will close off even more from you. Try to talk openly with your partner and explain what you are worried about. A miracle can happen and your partner may decide to open up! No matter what happens, this communication will help you understand everything.
#5. Do not close yourself
You have to understand your feelings and let them out. Don’t keep them inside! The thing is, it can put your heart under lock and key.
#6. You need to accept disappointment
Yes, it is hard! But you have to! No one crushes our world unless we let them. Learn to trust yourself to handle the feelings of loss, grief, and betrayal. Do you know that we are mirrors for each other? So when you are not feeling the love, you should look at the reflection and start with yourself.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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