It is difficult to predict the success of any relationship: sometimes an incredible relationship lasts for years, while others fail. Nevertheless, the experience of marriage counseling and the study of the reasons for the dissolution of marriage show that certain factors predispose either the strengthening or the disintegration of relations.
Mature and long-term relationships may not be possible with excessive dependence. A partner who remains highly dependent on parents may require more support from you than you are willing or able to currently provide. In certain circumstances, when you need support, even temporary, your partner may not be at all capable of taking the burden of responsibility on their shoulders like a mature person.
Today we are going to tell you about 5 choices that you need to make in order to have a long term relationship and to be in love all your life.
#1 Choose a mature and stable man rather than an adventurous one.Make sure that your partner can provide you with physical closeness and spiritual support. A person who is in emotional isolation and who finds it difficult to physically express feelings or accept them, has few prospects for maintaining a full-fledged relationship.
#2 Choose sexual compatibility. Sex will not show its inherent binding power if your views on it are very different or if it plays a much larger (or much smaller) role in your life than in the life of your partner. Sexual compatibility is not a matter of technology, since the "mechanics" of love can be fully learned in the process of mutual adaptation.
#3 Choose someone similar. Surveys show that there is a tendency to marry like-minded people. Although some marriages in which people are not similar to each other are successful, a joint life, without friction, is easier for a couple who has common interests and views and who want the same things from life
#4 Choose the option to spend time with your man, rather than to have another party with your girlfriends. Sure, you don’t need to give up your social life, but you need to set priorities. That will help you stay in love.
#5 Choose rational options for building a relationship. You should not settle for a long-term relationship until you’ve known each other for at least 9 months. Such time allows most people to get to know the best sides and shortcomings of each other. Also, living together, can help you find out whether the partnership will stand the test of time.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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