Your relationship lasts a very long period, but the recognition and hint of the seriousness of the relationship from the man does not arrive. For a while you can tolerate this, but sooner or later you will start to wonder: what is the reason for this behavior, how to understand that the relationship is serious?
Nobody wants to waste time on relationships that will end in a month. But one thing, if you just do not fit together, and quite another - if a man is initially set up only for sex without obligations - and then as long as it is convenient.
The question is how to recognize what he really wants? Here are 8 signs that he does not plan anything serious.
#1.He does not use the pronoun "we"
Speech is what gives out men in the first place. They know how to lie, they are able to invent a legend and never pierce the mismatch of small details, but it is ordinary, daily conversations that give them away.
#2. He does not say anything about his childhood
Because it, first, is too intimate. And, secondly, any hint of a child's theme is a taboo for him. Simply because he does not plan to have any common children with you, which means that there is no point in giving you food for thought on this topic.
#3.He does not forget your things from you and gives you back yours.
There are two versions of the reasons for this behavior, and none is better. Both are worse. First, we, as animals, "mark the territory", leaving little things that are associated with our presence. And the fact is that if your "marks" do not make a man nervous, then he stops noticing them very quickly.
#4. He does not ask you serious questions
Not the slightest hint of talking "for life": he is not interested in your family, your hobbies, your friends and your experiences. He talks only about what is happening at the moment with both of you. He can discuss with you the film you just saw, but he will not ask for who your favorite director is and why.
#5. He gives you gifts that you can give to any other girl
Flowers, candy, eerie baskets with makeup. All that you can give any girl at any time. In this there is not the slightest interest in your personality, that's it. It is clear that at the beginning of the relationship it's hard to guess what will delight you, because we girls are very different: one give the suspension with the emerald, and the other - the certificate for the jump with a parachute. But a man in love is able to remember the name of your favorite author, the brand of your favorite perfume or even your taste preferences.
#6. He is always busy
Always. There is no such case that you called, and he did not turn off the conversation, referring to urgent matters. He never answers messages at once, he does not pick up the phone, although you know that right now he has got into a taxi and he has absolutely nothing to do there. Then he will apologize, tell him that he could not answer, forgot to turn on the sound or something else happened. But in fact he just teaches you what he will decide when you will communicate.
#7. He does not introduce you to his relatives
With friends - it's please. It may very well be that he literally after the second date called you on his best friend's birthday. Some men still perceive a woman as a trophy, they do not mind to brag to her friends. The main indicator is the family: if you do not know anything about his relatives and he does not intend to introduce them to them, well, you understand.
#8.He does not ask you for help.
You, in principle, could come and feed his cat while the landlord is away, but this is for some reason made by a neighbor. You have a vast circle of professional acquaintances, but he does not ask for your advice if he needs an expert from your sphere. He does not ask you anything. And this is a sign that he is not going to stay close for a long time.
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